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Becoming Realistic in the ENM Community

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Mind’s eye Fantasy and Reality rarely intersect. That said, all the variables in human character and personality are the reasons why the aforementioned is true.  The odds are already stacked against you, but this is the reason this Community exists, to help INCREASE YOUR ODDS! How to increase your odds to find commonality enough to … Read more

The Start of Something New….

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Hello there…. If you are reading this, then chances are that you’re in “the lifestyle”! Or maybe you’re curious about “the lifestyle”…Either way, congratulations!!  WHAT IS THE LIFESTYLE? The term lifestyle can mean many different things, whether it defines a way of living, or a certain kind of culture. Then there is “the lifestyle”…. In … Read more

Beginning your journey into the ‘Lifestyle’

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Beginning your journey into the ‘Lifestyle’ The very first thing that one should do is be VERY REALISTIC with yourself and any partner(s). One thing you need to understand and keep in mind is… “Wherever there are humans, there are always the same positives and negatives as anywhere else”.  Do not expect anything less or … Read more

Understanding Successful Lifestyle Etiquette

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Understanding Successful Lifestyle Etiquette Open minded sexuality is an extremely broad term, do not assume that everyone is the same or similar, unless you are only focused in broad terms. Do not be so full of yourself that you dismiss anything as “just common sense”.  If common sense were so common, the word ‘mistake’ wouldn’t … Read more